We must not submit to everything just to keep a man

Denise and Jeff were lovers for years and were very happy together. Same hobbies, same line of work, so very much in common. Their connection was absolutely marvellous until one day....Jeff asked Denise to give him anal sex which she refused to because she found it painful and unnecessary. Jeff asked and asked again, arguing that lube would stop her from feeling any pain. When questioned about why he wanted to sodomise her, Jeff had no real answer to offer.
" Sounds like fun, everybody is doing it, I want to keep things exciting between us " those are hardly good reasons to do something one does not want to do.
Since she really did not want to have her back door broken, even with lube, Denise clearly told her boyfriend that not only was she never going to do that, she also wanted him to stop requesting it, as it was getting a little annoying. Jeff promised not to mention it again and Denise felt it was safe to have sex with him again until a couple of nights later he actually tried to insert his manhood where the sun does not shine.
Denise jumped off the bed screaming !
What was wrong with him ? was he stupid or plain disrespectful of her ? She made her position quite clear before, she does not want to have anal sex, not now, not ever.
Jeff pretended it is not such a big deal.
Denise then asked him to buy a dildo the size of his, considerably large, manhood so that she could fuck him in the ass next time they went to bed.
Now Jeff sat up quite angry and asked if she was insane.
Now, she said, she was not insane but if letting a huge penis into one's anus is not such a big deal, then Jeff should start by giving Denise his butt, if only to know what it feels like to be penetrated.
Only then would she accept doing something against her will just to please him.
Jeff was so horrified he never mentioned it again.
Denise felt she had won, they could go back to enjoying great sex without threats...... a dark thought
kept nagging at her however..... what if Jeff gets anal sex from another woman ? what if her refusal to do something she loathes drives her man into the arms or should I say the butt cheeks of another woman ? Surely he would not leave a great person like her for something so trivial ? would he ?
Should she make this sacrifice just to keep Jeff ?
Is it what their life is going to be like ? She will cave in to any demands just for the sake of not losing him ? If she lets Jeff wins this battle, what will he ask her to do next ? How far can this go ?
Still Denise decided not to let Jeff submit her to his will and she never brought this up again.

And what had to happen did happen. Jeff cheated on Denise with a girl who wanted him so much she gave him everything he asked for.....starting with anal sex as much as he wanted.
He confessed to a shocked Denise who was so disgusted at his treason that she immediately broke up. She packed his suitcase, threw away all the lingerie, books and ornaments he had given her within a couple of years, tore up all their photos together and sent everything to his office.
Jeff argued and pleaded and insisted it was her fault but Denise had enough self respect to know she deserves better than someone who will blackmail her each time he does not get his own way.
Jeff misses her to this day and has only recently accepted that he has lost, something he is not accustomed too. Butt girl thinks she has won but should be prepared to be cheated on because this is who Jeff is. Denise is currently taking a break from dating as she is profoundly nauseated from the sordid outcome of this affair, but she is extremely proud of the ladylike way in which she handled herself and saved her dignity.
I as her friend have seen her suffering and rejoice in her recovery. She was right to let him go, we must not accept to submit to our partners every whim , no matter how brilliant an gorgeous the guy is, if they don't treat us right, there will be a price to pay.
The price is....the will no longer have access to our bodies and will be ejected from our lives permanently. Jeff has lost a good woman here, good luck finding someone better.