Have you ever had sex that is so good and fulfilling that it keeps you satisfied for weeks ? This is what Im feeling right now. My favourite shag buddy and I had this absolutely steamy, yummy and explosive love making afternoon at the beginning of the month and it was sooooooo extraordinary that I turned down invitations from other men all month. Why did I do that ? I am not in any way or never will I be involved or bonded to him at all , well maybe fluid bonded but is to do with sexual trust not commitment nor obligations.
He so gave himself to me so very completely and took me as if I were his birthday present that, although I have always enjoyed shagging him and liked him an awful lot, this time I was impressed in such a way that I have not felt any desire for anyone else but him ever since.
We were only together a couple of times this month yet..... sex with him is soooooooooooo fabulous that the oceans of pleasure he gives me are carrying me through and right now no other man but him can turn me on sexually. I feel full as if I had had a magnificent 5 course meal and everyone else was trying to tempt me with a hot dog, I am just not famished after such a world class fuck. I don't know how long I will feel like this but I am just going to enjoy it for now. Normally I would fight this off because I really don't want another Martin situation but since we are not in love and not likely to be, I can savour this delicious feeling without fearing how high the price will be. What makes sex with this very man so exceptional now ? We have been sleeping together on and off for years and it has always been fantastic but right now..... it is like he can read my thoughts when we make love and each time he is as seductive as if it were a first date. Add a lot of trust in the mix and you will only have a hint of how good Igor gives it to me and I to him.
And all this sexual bliss without the agony of love ! Yay !
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you learn from each and you just get better. I have the same thing just gets better and better no boundaries but then she spoilt it all asking if I love her. What to do - the freedom of the moment went very quickly.
Sorry to hear that, does she think you love her ? does she want you to love her ? is she a fuck buddy or a girlfriend ? If it is clear to you that this is just sexual ecstasy and not love... you need to gently let her know before feelings get hurt. Give her a chance to make a choice to either stop seeing you because you don't love her back or keep seeing you while knowing you will never love her but she can have your body. Please ?
She knows where we stand- problem is the love making can be so powerful that I guess emotionally its hard to shut off. I can see you just had the same dose - you went against your own rules and see what happened?
Its a case of mixed messages I guess - she thinks the sex is sooo good - he must love me.
Of course I have warm feelings and a parallel friendship but doesn't mean I want to live with her.
It is a common mistake among women to imagine that if he gives fantastic sex then he must love her, I know better and I fight hard against this. Yes I had the same case but at least I know Igor doesn't love me, it was exclusively sexual. His body loved mine, end of story. However I felt some emotions that I really don't want to have so I decided to never shag Igor again because I never want to have this embarrassment. I could make a learned choice based on what I know of our fuckbuddyship and what I want in life. I chose to keep the sovereignty of my sexual freedom therefore chuck Igor out of my life before I lose control and start hurting. Make sure your lover knows the deal so she wont hurt. Leaving Igor at this point means I can keep warm fond beautiful memories of him. No regrets and resentments here, no one used anyone, we were 2 consenting single adults who shared intense pleasure for 9 years. Now we separated and moving on to other people because the situation is no longer convenient to me. Please give her the choice so that you can keep having magical sex without regrets in the future. Best of luck and keep me posted. Muah !
Yeah its working - she knows where things are but sometimes life gets in the way.
I think sex if you add that secret ingredient desire then that changes everything.
But you Chantal! - I'm concerned for you - you should read the title of your blog again! You go all monogamous and then pay the price - of course its pride and self respect that have been hit - he was more crafty than you.
Bon chance ma belle
Tres cher, I am human and sometimes I make delicious mistakes too, but at least I identified the danger early enough and I removed myself from possible embarrassment and hurt. That is what being the boss of my sexlife is about. I occasionally get carried away but bounce back on my feet. No one got hurt in this process, we both lost brilliant shagbuddies but it could have been so much worse. By the way , you are the third man who calls me ma belle this week. I hate that, it is so random. Please call me my name or give me a nickname of your choice. ( wink )
ha you're lucky its belle;-)
yeah its sooo boring listening to compliments being a woman LOL
you deserve it though-but I'll stick with Chantal your real name until I find a nickname.
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