I am the boss of my sexlife.: The price of sexual freedom

Thursday 20 October 2011

The price of sexual freedom

Since shagbuddie number one has had an accident and wallows in self pity like the insecure weakling he is, he wont let me anywhere near him. Crying shame if you ask me but it does not mean that I should close my legs for as long as it takes him to decide it is safe to go back to the bad girl. In the meantime...... I have had a couple of hot one night stands with handsome strangers and a couple of hot sexy encounters with shagbuddie number two. However sexy and satisfying that it was....I cannot find the feeling of being treasured and wanted. I miss the adoring glances and the magical touch and gentle kissing of shagbuddie number one.
Is that the price to pay for my freedom ?
Settling for really hot sex without magic ? Is that the price to pay for my peace of mind, so I wont even be tempted to lose control and do something stupid like letting a man into my heart ?
I guess it is.
And although I have loved melting and fusing with Martin time and time again. Feeling these butterflies in my stomach is just not worth it.

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The whole point of this blog is ...

Every single experience Im writing in this blog has really happened to me.
The bad as well as the good times.
When it went well, it was fabulous, when it went not so well it was awful, but this is not about glorifying myself, it is about showing you, it can be done and you can survive it brilliantly.
Each and every man Im telling you about is real. Some of them I regret, some Im happy to have known, some I miss and some are still relevant now.
Every single word is true.
The whole point of exposing myself like this is to show women that there is a way out of the virgin/whore mold. We need not accept victimisation anymore, it is ok to have a great sexlife.
A woman can be sexually liberated as a man and still have love in her life.
A woman can be a party animal at party time and yet be a loyal friend, a loving mother, a serious worker , a Church member and a charity worker in her everyday life. It just a question of disciplin and knowing what you want and what you do not.
Having an intense sexlife does not make you a slut, it makes you happy, satisfied and contented, just like it does with men.
No more and no less.
Are men branded whores when they hop from bed to bed ? No they are not, then we shouldnt be either.
Im not advocating adultery or cheating on your partners. Thats not what I am talking about at all.
I was myself very faithfull when I was married or involved.
Im merely encouraging women to take control of your love life, your sex life, because of the myth women have been taught is ruining many women's lives.
The myth Im talking about is sex would be an act of love, if a man makes fantastic love to you it means he loves you or has feelings for you.
Yeah, right !
Sex, making love, shaging, however you call it, has most of the time nothing to do with love, it is a physical act ruled by hormons. Men love sex and understandably make the most of it each time they can, not because they love us, but because they love how good it feels at the time beeing, nothing to do with us.
Of course if you are very lucky, you might reach the Saint Graal of sex :
making love to someone who actually loves you.
It exists and it is beautiful beyond description.
Even I have known this kind of love.
But it remains exceptional, chances are everytime a guy wants your body , he wants....well...your body !
Not your heart, not your soul, not your affection, not even your respect, He just wants your body.
nothing else.
I am so tired of seeing good women beeing treated like dirt by unworthy men who abuse the illusion of love time and time again.
Women who dont realise last night was last night and this morning is the morning after a one night stand.
Girls who give their trust as well as their body to the boy who said I love you, and feel crushed when he gloats about having another notch on his bed post.
This has to stop !
Married women who suffer in silence while their husband get elsewhere what they think they must not give him because tradition tells us nice girls dont like sex.
How about the ones who take all sort of abuse from their men just because he is good in bed and they imagine they can only climax with their tormentors.
Women who let their boyfriend steal their money, run around with their cars or slap them around because they think it is more socially acceptable than being " alone "
I for one am really disguted with those stereotypes that keep women in male bondage.
No man , is a lot better than a bad man who abuse you.
When you understand the physiology of sex and the power of seduction you will be strong, confidant and never needy again.
This is a great way to live, I want to impart some of my wisdom on you and let you know you have the right to be happy without submitting yourself to traditional patriarchal dominion.
If I can help even one of you to take charge of her sexlife and not be a victim anymore then this whole blog has a point.
You may post comments or email me, I shall answer each and everyone of you.
If you are a man reading this, do not judge us, respect us, dont lie, try to be honnest...it actually works !

I am the boss of my sexlife.

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Thursday 20 October 2011

The price of sexual freedom

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