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Thursday 27 January 2011

Day sex vs Night sex

Have you ever notice how good it feels to have sex on day time ? When you are not suposed to, when you should be at work, beeing productive and stressed out, and instead you take an hour off your insanely busy schedule to meet with a friend and get bouncy.
Sweaty skin, hair messed up, make up melted, wrinkled clothes all thrown on the floor. But you couldnt care less because you feel happy, extatic and soooooooo empowered. The urgency of it and the obligation to get back to work/ class/ meeting, make it feel so naughty...
Great sex is the only time when we are truely free and unafraid, the only thing that we get to do for us, the one thing that cannot be taken back.
You immediately step back into reality after a couple of orgasms and you will handle whatever they throw at you with a smile on your face and a song in your heart.

My all time favourite is morning sex, I know a lot of people dislike it intensely but I feel there is something almost primal about waking up next to someone ( preferably someone you made passionate love to the night before ), looking at him still half asleep and to find that his very first reaction before he even says good morning  is reaching his hand out and grab your body for glorious beautifull magical morning sex !
yum yum yum !

A French friend of mine says if the night has been great, he feels like having some more in the morning. Igor says day sex energy is way stronger that night sex but he never does it as he wakes up because he cant even think of sex before he has a cup of coffee. Most black men are happy to start the day with a good romp. we are all different.

At night of course you are more relaxed, have more time and can spend as much time on sex as you like, even taking breaks and doing it again later.
Djamel, Mark, Volker and Djawad always said they felt like night time is precisely for this, sharing voluptous moments of madness with me, to make up for their tough day time activities.
There is something mysterious and creative about making love when it is dark.
The hypnotic sexyness of candlelights and their shadows dancing on your lover's naked skin. Phones are off, music has to be played less loud... does it get more romantic that that ?
Is it my imagination or do men give themselves more fully at night ? Specially if it is a first date with a new man and you have agreed to sleep together afterwards for some reason.
I had such a fabulous date with a smart, articulate, warm and cuddly man from new zealand last week and I just loved the spooning that ocurred before I fell asleep in his arms, I hadnt done that since Easter 2009 !

So , we have day time sex that is breathtakingly exciting, urgent and has an almost forbidden feel to it and we have night time sex which is beautifull and magical beyond description.
Which one is your favourite ?
I know I cant choose either. Oops I guess that means I gotto carry on doing both then !

2 comments:

kiwi said...

New Zealanders like the afternoons -those lost moments when its 'hors du temps' when no real time lost between luncht and evening. Candles - incense sticks - the right music and the rest leads to moments of lost pleasure...

Chantal ! said...

hmmm I feel you Kiwi